Do The Work And Opportunities Will Come

Opportunities are always presenting themselves.  When I was in the Navy, I was the first person any of my superiors knew who had ever gotten qualified to stand Engineering Officer of the Watch (EOW) in less than two years of getting out of school.  I was the youngest and lowest ranking member of the Engineering Casualty Control Training Team (ECCTT).  And I was on my way to dive school, until I decided I really didn’t want to be in the Navy.  These opportunities didn’t come because I complained and asked for more money, but because I worked and learned the entire engineering department on my ship in less than two years. Here are six things I learned from that experience.

Be willing to learn.  Many people want to be successful but they just want the success not the work involved.  I love reading and listening to Dr John Maxwell.  I am as much a product of his leadership as any young leader today.  But, I think too many of us want to be giant church leaders because that is the story he spread.  I also believe he will be the first one to warn that you have to be willing to put in the work and learn before you can be a leader.

Be satisfied with where you are, but continue to dream. Don’t mis-read that.  What I am saying is grow where you are.  If you are a genuinely good leader then you should want to help those around you. If you are constantly jumping from church to church it is not a sign of leadership, that is a sign of immaturity.

Read good books.  I read constantly while I was gaining knowledge of the ship. I read schematics, diagrams, and service manuals.  I learned all that I could through the books that were available to me.  If you are going to be a leader, you have got to read the books that will build you up. Your Next Read is a good source to help you find what you need to read next.   Don’t just read books from today, read books that were popular 10, 20, or even 100 years ago.  We don’t have the best books ever written today so look to the past.

Teach others.  Every time I learned one watch station I tried to teach everyone working with me what I knew.  Doing this taught me two things. First, not everyone wants to learn.  I know that’s hard to believe but it is true.  Many people want the success they see you have but they really just want the appearance not the knowledge.   Second, people will get credit for what you do.  Teach others anyway.  What you do makes you a leader, not the praise that comes with it. Never, harbor ill will towards anyone who gets credit for what you do.

Practice Your Craft. I sat in front of consoles and crawled in bilges for hours learning the correct sequence for shutting down the engines, fuel and oil pumps, and every other system in the engine rooms.  Practice makes perfect is not just a good saying, it is a fact.   Practicing being a leader will not make you a leader, but it will make you a better human.

Learn Form those who went before you.  Find someone who is doing what you want to do and latch yourself to them. I followed two men around for those two years and watched everything they did. I sat at the console while they were on watch, I picked their brains for information, and I even began carrying myself and talking like they did.  While I didn’t become them, I put every ounce of effort I could into learning what they knew.

The one thing I learned since then is Learn to listen to Jesus.  I wasn’t a Christian when I was in the Navy, so Jesus never played a role in what I did.  We are bombarded with opportunities daily as leaders so we need to be in tune with Christ and what he is doing on our lives and world so we can discern what he wants us to do.

What can you do today to grow as a leader?  Are you being mature about what is happening around you or to you? Can you see opportunities if they present themselves?

Vishal Mangalwadi – The Book That Made Your World

The Book that Made Your World
walks us through history and different settings to show that the bible and Christ are the only explanations for man’s meaning.  Coming from the Hindu cast structure, Vishal shows how Christ is the only answer that makes sense.  I don’t anticipate reading many of the books I read, but this one had me intrigued through his personal story.  And it all starts with a history of music.

Vishal explores seven major themes:

  • The Soul of Western Civilization
  • A Personal Pilgrimage
  • The Seeds of Western Civilization
  • The Millennium’sRevolution
  • The Intellectual Revolution
  • What Made The West The Best
  • Globalizing Modernity

This book challenged me to see the world as a whole and not just my little place in it.  We are all in this together, and what I do as an American affects people around the world that I will never see.  As Christians we have to stand up for what we believe in.  Not confrontationally, but prayerfully.  When we trust in God to take care of us, we don’t need force or hate filled words to fight our battles.

If you love history or are an apologist or just someone who wants to know more about where Christianity fits in todays secular culture I believe this may be a book for you.  At 490 pages it is a little long for anyone who does not read a lot, but it is easy to read as well so it seems much shorter than it is.  It’s only 390 then several appendices follow, but who’s counting.  I read a lot and The Book that Made Your World took me a week to read.

I have always been fascinated by people from Eastern cultures accept Christ as their savior and the most famous of the today is Ravi Zacharias.  When I saw The Book that Made Your World

by Vishal Mangalwadi I knew I had to read it.  As a Christian and a history buff I know a little about how the bible shaped western culture, but I never guessed the over arching impact it has had even in our secular society of today.

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5 Ways To Eliminate Distractions

If you leave your house every day you know what distractions can come at you.  Getting in the car is the biggest distraction most of us face.  We also may have a boss that texts us, then emails, then finally calls to see if we got the text all within 1 minute.  There is also the guy that wants to swing by your office every thirty minutes just to say hi or talk sports.   Over the years I have tried to eliminate most major distractions in my life all of which seem to crop back up from time to time.

Learn To Manage Your Time. I use Focus Booster to help compartmentalize time into 25 minute blocks.  Built around the Pomodoro Technique focus booster help you see time for what it really is, a tool.  After working for 25 minutes you take a five-minute break and after every 4 pomodoros you take a long 10 – 15 minute break.

Turn Of  All Social Network Alerts.  This is one of the most time-consuming things people do in our culture.  Stay off of social networks unless it is your job to be on them.  If you have Tweetdeck, HootSuite or any other social network platform turn off the alerts.  You don’t need to know everything all the time.

Don’t Turn On Your Browser. Let’s face it, we are all on the computer for work and play more than we really need to be.  I write, obviously because you are reading what I am writing, when I write I use Microsoft’s Live Writer.  It connects to my blog so I can write offline and send it to my blog without having to get on the internet at all.  There are dozens of tools you can use to do most tasks without getting on the internet at all.  Yes a computer can do more things than surf the internet.

Sticking with our theme, Keep Your Email Program Closed.  No you don’t have to check you email every five minutes.  It’s time some one stood up to say, don’t expect people to email you back instantly.  I will get back to you and your time is not more important than mine.

Turn Your Phone Off.  There is nothing more rude than you checking you text messages while I am trying to talk to you.  Turn it off and leave it off.  Five years ago we could live without our phones, if you can’t do it now you may have a problem.  There is no one that is so important they must have a phone on 24/7. (Mr. President you are included, turn it off and spend time with the wife and kids.  You have my permission.)

These are just a few ways you can eliminate distractions in your life.  Stepcase Lifehack has a list of apps to help eliminate distractions.  Wise Bread gives us 6 areas we can get rid of distractions in.

Take time and think of the little things that eat away at your time each day.

Use Disney World For Home School

My family just got back from a week at Disney World in Orlando, and it was a great trip.  Had I known before hand how educational Epcot and Animal Kingdom were going to be I would have prepared to do a little more home school work while we were there.  I know what your thinking and no I’m not a militant home school all the time kind of guy.  I’m not, seriously, I just wanted to use our down time, and there is a lot, to reinforce some of what we were learning and seeing already.

Take Space Ship Earth at Epcot for instance.  You can use that as a jumping off point to teach world history, creation, the exponential increase of information and technology, or get them dreaming about where they think we are going in the future. That one ride is a month’s worth of lessons in itself.  For that matter, you can get 10 geography and history lessons from the countries exhibited and more from the other exhibits around the park.

Animal Kingdom is another years worth of biology and zoology courses.  We talked for two hours just about endangered species and what that means where we live.  How the bald eagle had been on the endangered list but has been taken off recently.  I told them I saw one bald eagle when I was growing up and now we see them eating the ducks by the mall.  That’s not true we only saw it circling the pond the ducks were in, not actually eating them, but we know how it ended.

Animal Kingdom also has a stamp program where the kids can go to six different places in the park and learn about animals then get a card stamped showing what they learned.  This has been a great jumping off point for biology and creation study since we have gotten home.  If you are worried about your child hearing something you would not teach them, don’t be.  Use what they hear and teach them what you believe to be correct.

To top it all off Disney World has a home school program you can put your kids in.  They can spend a day behind the scenes learning about the animal, biology, physics, and art.  Where else would you want your art loving child to learn how to draw.  My point is this.  Your child is going to learn more having fun at Disney than they ever will sitting and listening to you or a teacher if they go to school.  Use what is out there where ever you are.

I know many home school parents who teach creation and think it is bad at least, and a mortal sin at worst if their child hears anything different.  Remember, they will hear it sometime, why not when you are around so you can teach them.  Don’t be scared away from these opportunities because you don’t want them hearing a different point of view.

 

 

 

One Bad Chicken

Mother’s Day 2011 Video

I did this 2 minute video for our church service this morning.  Since I am not there to talk about my mother in person.

The Ken I refer to is Ken Bish our lead pastor at New Journey Church

Friday Follow-up 2011-05-06

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Free Bibles On Kindle

I don’t know how long this will last, but right now you can get the English Standard Version (ESV) and Holman Christian Standard Bible (HCSB) bibles for free on the Amazon Kindle.

If you do not have a Kindle you can get it for the PC here and Mac here. You can read any Kindle book on your PC without buying one.

You can also get free ebooks that are in the public domain. I picked up The Pursuit of God by A.W. Tozer and , The Person and Work of The Holy Spirit by R.A.Torrey and several more books for free.

 

Thanks to Karen at Saving The Family Money for this tip.

Spiritual Disciplines Are Not Rules To Follow

I wanted to write this because I think many people look at the spiritual disciplines as a list of ways we can gain favor with God.  I don’t want you to look at them in that way.  I believe spiritual disciplines are initiated by the Holy Spirit.  When we feel that deep longing inside us to connect on a different level with Jesus.  That little voice inside that says, “Give your lunch money to the homeless guy and you spend lunch with me.”

We want to follow a set of rules so bad that many of us find it hard to believe Jesus actually wants to be the Lord of our life.  There are others that believe that anything we do in our lives is a rule and not of God.  I want you to be in the middle of that.  Let me give you a couple of examples from my life.

I pray every day, but not in the way you think.  I pray from promptings.  I pray for the family two doors down that just found out they are having their first baby, and then write that down in my notebook so I can remember it later.  I pray a lot that Jesus will be the Lord of my life, that my kids will know him, and that he will strengthen my family.  I just don’t do it at a regular time everyday.

I read my bible.  I don’t read it everyday, I read three or for times each week.  But when I do read it I spend a lot of time in it.  Right now I am doing an in-depth study of 1, 2, and 3 John and it’s amazing.  When I am teaching at a church I read everyday because I want to understand the passage I am speaking on, but my normal habit is to read every other day at best.  By-the-way, I will read through the bible this year.  Not because i have to, but because I want to, and no I have not been reading everyday.

Don’t let people put you in their God box.  Chaplain Mike over at Internet Monk has a great post on how, It’s OK… To Just Be A Christian.  That is what I want you to realize.  Just be yourself around Jesus, when you really just let go and give it all to him, life becomes a lot simpler.  It took me a long time to realize this fact but when I did I freed me up to love him in a way I never could before.

What Are Spiritual Disciplines

Spiritual disciplines are a way that God uses to transform us into the men and women we are supposed to be.

Spiritual disciplines mean different things to different people.  A Catholic will name many more than a Baptist.  A non-Christian religious person may name different ones than most Christians.  For the sake of this post I will define Christian Spiritual Disciplines since that is what I know.

The Christian disciplines are at their base a means to help us get closer to the heart of God.  What they are not is a formula or a trick to get God to love us or forgive us more than he already has.

The basis I find for spiritual disciplines is in 1st Timothy 4:7-9 Paul says this,

“Have nothing to do with godless myths and old wives’ tales; rather, train yourself to be godly.  For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promises for both the present life and the life to come.  This is a trustworthy saying that deserves full acceptance.”

Our lives in Christ are not supposed to be static.  We’re supposed to learn and grow and follow Christ in all we do. Again quoting Paul from Romans 12:2,

Don’t be like the people of this world, but let God change the way you think. Then you will know how to do everything that is good and pleasing to him. (CEV)

I want to make it clear that spiritual disciplines are not a set of rules.  Following a set of rules does not transform us.  Christ transforms us and spiritual disciplines are way he uses to open us up.  Donald Whitney says in his book Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life (affiliate link) that God uses people, circumstances, and spiritual disciplines.  People and circumstances work form the outside while the disciplines are from the inside.

We need to be open to God and listen to his guiding in all of our life especially when we are starting our journey into the disciplines.

Read Free Books Online

I Love Books! Many people think that a free book is not as good as a book they can attach some monetary value to. Others think that because many of these free books were written in the 19th century or earlier that they are not worth reading.  Books become free when they fall into the public domain.  Most books written before 1923 are in the public domain now and you can read these books online free.  I may discuss the public domain later, since it has been hijacked by a few people and our congress has gone along with it.

I read a lot of Christian books. I read everything from history to thought to stuff I don’t agree with. I also love the classic novels of Frankenstein, Dracula, and Sherlock Holmes. The 18th and 19th century produced many of the best book ever written.  since these books were written before 1923 they are free books for everyone to enjoy.

Home Schooling

I home school my two sons so I am always looking for different books for them to read. These are all websites I use to get the most out of our reading library. I wouldn’t use the science books if you find any, but the history books are very useful and many are books written close to events like the civil war and the revolution.  I hope this list is helpful to you and since these are free books, you can get as many as you like.

Project Gutenberg

Project Gutenberg has over 33,000 public domain books. these books are made available by the work of thousands of volunteers who digitize each book. The books at Project Gutenberg are book that were previously published and the copyright has since expired.

The books are available to download on most eReader platforms including the Kindle and Nook. I have downloaded books on both the Nook and Kindle and have had no problem on either.

Google books

Now that Google is not only providing books that are in the public domain, but also selling books that can be read across several platforms, Google has gone to the head of the line in online book sellers. Yes Google of all sites now sells books, and the only place you can’t read them is on your Kindle, because the Kindle does not read the standard .epub file like the Sony Reader and the Nook.

I know Google is the big boy on the block, and a lot of people do not like using them because they are “cyber evil.” Look at it this way. If they have more free book online and better content than anyone else, why not use them.

UPenn Online Books Page

The library of The University of Pennsylvania has an extensive archive of free online books. This project was started in 1993 (Wow what vision) by John Mark Ockerbloom.

This archive has two parts. A curated part that has been examined by someone to be placed in the curated archive. And the extended archive which has book freely brought into the library without any type of examination. The cool thing about the curated part is that most of the book have been suggested by readers and not some snooty librarian that thinks his or her preferences are the only good choice.

Christian Classics Ethereal Library

If you are looking for early Christian books, this is the place. CCEL has writings from early church fathers from the first century up to around 500 AD.

If you are interested in the thought that created the early church this is a great place to start. I have read several of the writings but have not read the complete works. I am working on a more modern translation of the Confessions of St. Augustine so I use this site as a reference.

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