Why You Should Say No To Opportunities

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I’ve written several times about how to say no, but I want to address why you should say no.  I know good opportunities are out there for entrepreneurs.  For that matter good opportunities are out there for every one.  The problem with good opportunities is, they aren’t great opportunities.  If you can learn to say no to good opportunities you will have more great opportunities than you know what to do with.

I know how the story goes; you don’t want to offend anyone, you don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings.  Look at it this way if you learn to say no first, you can always go back and say yes later.

  1. The first and best reason is that you’re too busy.  If you have a lot of different opportunities you’re trying to work right now one more opportunity is not going to make life easier.  When I was a kid we had a place where we would fish called the “Honey Hole.” the problem with the “Honey Hole” was it was too easy to catch fish.  After a long day of walking and carrying fish we still had a clean them when we got home.  Many times we would throw good fish away because we were so tired we couldn’t clean them.  If you’re too busy, you don’t need to take on more opportunities
  2.  The opportunity doesn’t fit you.  As a leader you’d need to know what you’re about.  If you can’t sell you don’t need to join a Network Marketing business.  I understand that we all want to make money quickly.  But you need to learn some skills before you quit your job, because you think you’re going to get rich by starting a business.  If an opportunity doesn’t fit you, you need to say no.
  3. You haven’t it checked it out.  This by far is my favorite reason not to do something.  If you haven’t researched it, you don’t need to do it.  I got into a business when I was 24 years old that I did not understand.  That year my family lived on $4000.  By the grace of God we made it through that year but I swore then and there that I would never do something I didn’t understand.

I don’t want to be the who is always saying no, but I want you to think about what you’re doing.  People who are happy don’t go around sticking their finger in every piece of pie they find.  They find the right opportunity that fits them and research it and they’d do it correctly.

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Why Not Become A Life Coach

Do you like to help people succeed?  Is there an area you have a niche in?  Are you able to listen to what people say and honestly reflect that back to them?  Do you want to own your own business?  Then becoming a life coach may be right for you.

When I began exploring coaching in 2006 I knew I had a calling deep within me.  I graduated from Liberty University with a degree in religion and thought I was going to be the pastor of a church.  However, counseling is not my thing.  As a pastor, counseling is one of the main things I would be doing during the day.   I found that  I was to honest, and most people do not want you to be honest with them.  I like to work with people who want to accomplish goals, people who have vision, and want to lead others.  I can not work with people who just want me to tell them I love them and it will get better.  Because I know it won’t get better unless they do something to make it better.

What Is Your Back Ground?

I mentioned above about having a niche.  Everyone is an expert at something.   My father was a Caterpillar Tractor Mechanic.  He was payed more money than anyone I ever met for working on a tractor.  Why? Because that was his niche.  He worked on nothing else, and he was the best.  What Are You Good At?  You can be a coach in any field.  You can get started with a blog like I did then expand into coaching.  I’ll help you set up a web address if you want one, just email me at steve (at) pinnaclebalance dot com and let me know you want to set up a blog and I’ll help you get started.

I Don’t Have A Degree.

So what!  Like I said above, “Everyone is an expert at something.”  Can you cook, scrapbook, plan parties, help the grieving, or stay married for 15 years?  Do you paint, craft, mechanic, sell anything, or just love people?  Do you know a lot about beer, wine, spirits, food, pastries, or anything else? Do you see what I am getting at. You know something about something so you can be a coach.

Do you like to be stretched and challenged?

Many or maybe all of the sites that advertise coach training tell you that you need to be trained to be a life coach.  There is no rule that says you have to get formal training to be a coach.  They want to sell you the training so they can make money.  Instead, I suggest getting several books and reading them to help get started.

First is, Becoming a Professional Life Coach, This gives you a great start to learning the coaching profession.  Next is, “Four Steps to Building a Profitable Coaching Practice” by Deborah Brown-Volkman.  This was the first book I ever bought.  It will get you started in the art of building and marketing your business and most importantly choosing who you coach. Third is The Coaching Starter Kit: Everything You Need to Launch and Expand Your Coaching Practicefrom Coachville.com.  While this book has a long name it has ideas, reports, documents, and even coaching contracts you can use to get started in your business.  Finally, if you need help asking question or ideas for developing documents  Total Life Coaching: 50+ Life Lessons, Skills, and Techniques to Enhance Your Practice…and Your Life again by Patrick Williams.  Yes it has another long name, but can be invaluable to help you get your practice started.

I hope this has given you a look at coaching and instilled the belief that you can become a coach. If you have question feel free to contact me from our about page.  Or if you are looking to start a coaching relationship fill out our coaching questionnaire for a free getting to know you session.

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